Thursday, August 26, 2010

FINE… THEN I’LL DO IT MYSELF!

Have you ever found yourself saying that to someone? Either out loud or in your head?

Many times we are trained to “go it alone” and do it all ourselves. Working independently has become a badge of honor that me must wear.

Carrying the whole load of anything can be very difficult and it can sometimes overwhelm you.

It is perfectly acceptable to allow others to support you, but for some it can be a challenge to learn to do so.

Accepting support may require retraining so start small. Find someone you trust to coach you and listen to their advice.

Take small steps and watch how you react. Learn to avoid diving into your independent self and move toward a collective approach to solving things in your life.

Become a good teacher and you can share your skills and share the work load without feeling compelled to do it all yourself.

Allow yourself to be supported and you will feel amazing!

Love Papa

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